
| Status: | Active, open to new members | 
| Leader: | |
| Leader: | 
Jeff Shell
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| Group email: | Mindfulness group | 
| When: | On Tuesday afternoons 1:30 pm-3:30 pm Weeks 1 & 3 | 
| Venue: | Porthcawl YMCA | 
Links to discussion papers
What is Meditation
Resources
What is Mindfulness
9 Attitudes
Can Mindfulness help
Origins & Pioneers
8 Week Course
Handout for new members
u3a Mindfulness Ageing Course
Mindfulness Poems
Upcoming Meetings details
4th November
Our discussion for November 4th will be all about the EGO, 
here’s two theories to begin.
Probably we all know Freud’s theory. In Freud’s theory:
- The id is the instinctive part of the mind — it wants immediate pleasure and gratification.
- The ego is the rational part — it balances the id’s desires with reality.
- The superego is the moral conscience — it represents the internalised values and rules of society (often learned from parents and culture).
- Together, these three parts form the structure of personality.
How Mindfulness Interprets EGO.
| Aspect | Without Mindfulness | With Mindfulness | 
| Id | Impulsive and driven by craving | Observed and regulated with awareness | 
| Superego | Judgmental and harsh | Softened with self-compassion | 
| Ego | Reactive and defensive | Balanced, calm, and responsive | 
Everyday example: The Cake Dilemma 🍰
Imagine you’re on a diet, but there’s a big slice of chocolate cake in front of you.
The id says:
“Eat it! It looks delicious — you deserve it!”
The id only cares about pleasure and instant satisfaction. It doesn’t think about health, consequences, or self-control.
The superego says:
“Don’t you dare! You promised yourself you’d eat healthy. Eating that cake is wrong.”
The superego is like your inner moral voice — it wants you to do the right thing, even if it means missing out on pleasure.
The ego says:
“Let’s be sensible. Maybe I’ll have a small slice now and go for a walk later.”
The ego acts as the mediator — it listens to both sides and tries to find a realistic balance between desire (id) and morality (superego).
In short
- The id is like a wild child — impulsive and emotional.
- The superego is like a strict parent — moral and demanding.
- The ego is the referee — it tries to keep both happy while dealing with reality.
18th November
Topic to be confirmed
9th December
Last meeting in 2025
16th December
Christmas celebrations for those who want to attend, details to be finalised.
20th January 2026
Topic to be confirmed
17th February 2026
Topic to be confirmed
You can't stop the waves, but you can learn how to surf.
Please come and join us, we're a very relaxed drop-in group and enjoy seeing new faces and share experiences.
If you have not attended before, please wear comfortable, unrestrictive clothes and maybe a wrap or blanket if you think you might get cold
Mindfulness can be defined as knowing what is happening while it is happening, no matter what it is. You can find us in the YMCA Hall
No need to ring beforehand, just turn up. Everyone is welcome, the group format is a 15 min meditation to settle our minds , followed by a discussion on a theme, idea or arising issues, followed by coffee, tea and a chat and ending with a meditation.
Mind the Moment, 
Our Mindful Blog.
Mindful Magic: Bringing Calm into the Spooky Season!


There’s something special about this time of year, isn’t there?
The nights draw in, the air turns crisp. Halloween especially carries a delightful mix of mystery and mayhem and there’s a little buzz of excitement all around, and the world feels just a touch more mysterious. This seasonal sparkle can also stir up our energy. The change in light, the busyness, and even the playful spookiness of Halloween can all wake up our nervous systems. One minute we’re full of fun and laughter, the next we might feel slightly on edge — it’s perfectly normal.
Halloween naturally dances between light and dark. It’s a celebration on contrast – fun and fear, shadow and sparkle, chaos and calm, these are all opposite sides of the same coin and mindfulness is how we learn which side to see. And maybe that’s a part of why it makes us feel so alive, we’re invited to explore the thrill of the unknown, the joy of our imaginations, and the comfort of returning home to our inner calm at the end of the adventure. One side of the coin feels exciting, the other unsettling, but inside the body, they’re not so different!
That’s where mindfulness comes in — our gentle bit of everyday magic.
When we pause and breathe, we bring mindful awareness into this season, we begin to see “spooky” in a new light, we give ourselves a chance to meet that extra energy with calm curiosity instead of being swept away by it. Mindfulness doesn’t mean shutting out the fun; it means staying present with it — the laughter, the flickering candlelight, the jumpy surprises — without losing our balance. Next time you feel that seasonal buzz — maybe the rush of excitement or chaos in the air or that fluttery feeling in your chest — Stop and Drop, try this:
Take a slow, steady breath in, and an easy breath out.
Feel your feet on the ground.
Notice what’s around you — the colours, the sounds, the scents of autumn.
That simple pause is your spell for balance. 
Not all magic glows, sometimes it whispers in stillness.
So, as you enjoy the pumpkins, costumes, and laughter this spooky season, let mindfulness walk beside you. it’s in the moments when we stop, breathe, and simply notice that we’re alive.
Happy (and mindful) spooky season! 👻✨
🍁 Carrying the Magic Forward…
As autumn deepens and the trees release their last golden leaves, the world seems to exhale.
The rush of the spooky season settles, and everything feels a little quieter — softer, slower.
This is nature’s gentle reminder that even endings are part of the rhythm of life.
It’s the perfect time to carry forward the mindful magic we’ve been cultivating.
The magic of presence, of pausing, of noticing.
Because the real magic was never in the candles or the costumes — it’s in you.
It’s in the steady awareness that allows you to sit calmly amidst the whirl of life.
It’s in the compassion that softens how you meet each moment,
and the intention that turns ordinary days into something quietly sacred.
As we move through this turning of the seasons, we can begin to transform chaos into curiosity.
When life feels messy, instead of fighting it, we can ask —
                             What’s really happening here? What can I learn?
That simple shift — from reacting to wondering — is pure alchemy.
So, as the leaves fall and the air grows still, take a breath and feel your own exhale.
Let this season remind you: slowing down isn’t stopping — it’s returning.
Returning to awareness, compassion, and intention —
the true sources of mindful magic, carried within you, wherever you go.
🕯️ Guided Meditation: Carrying the Magic Forward (5 minutes) -
You can make an audio for yourself if it’s easier… 
Begin by finding a comfortable position…
Feet grounded, hands resting softly, eyes gently closed or lowered, you might be sitting in a chair, on the ground or lying down, whatever is the most comfortable for you.
Take a deep breath in through the nose…
and let it go slowly through the mouth.
One more like that — breathing in calm,
and breathing out anything that feels heavy or hurried.
As you settle, picture the trees in late autumn…
their branches bare, their roots deep in the quiet earth.
Everything in nature is slowing down — not ending, just resting.
The world itself seems to exhale.
Notice the same rhythm in your own body —
your breath, your heartbeat, your natural stillness beneath the movement of life.
Now, bring to mind the “mindful magic” you’ve been cultivating —
the moments of pause, of laughter, of awareness.
Imagine holding that gentle light within your heart —
a warm glow that doesn’t fade when the seasons change.
As thoughts or feelings arise — perhaps busy, restless, or uncertain —
see if you can meet them with curiosity rather than judgement.
Instead of thinking, “I shouldn’t feel this way,”
try asking, “What’s this feeling here to show me?”
This is how we transform chaos into curiosity —
by turning towards our experience with kindness.
Now, breathe into that space of calm awareness —
the quiet knowing that lives beneath the noise.
Let that awareness expand through your body,
softening the shoulders, the jaw, the chest, the belly.
Let it spread like light through a window on a still autumn morning.
As you rest here, repeat silently to yourself:
The real magic is within me.
Awareness is my calm.
Compassion is my strength.
Intention is my guide.
Take a few final, slow breaths.
Feel the steadiness of your seat,
the gentle weight of your body resting on the earth.
And when you’re ready, bring a little movement back —
wiggle the fingers and toes,
open the eyes slowly,
and carry that quiet, mindful magic with you
into the rest of your day. 🙏 🍃
*** Our mindfulness group is a respectful, safe space for all our members, 
but we are not therapists or a replacement for professional advice. 
If you think you have mental health issues, please visit your GP. ***
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Full list of Groups
Groups listed alphabetically
- 
    Astronomy
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons
 Weeks 1 & 3 at 2 p.m.
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    Book Club 1
 Status: Full
 Monthly on Friday mornings
 Last Friday of month
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    Book Club 2
 Status: Full
 Monthly on Wednesday mornings
 week 2
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    Book Club 3
 Status: Full
 Monthly on Thursday afternoons
 Week 1 @ 2 p.m.
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    Canasta
 Status: Active
 On Monday afternoons
 Week 1 & 3
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    Ceramics
 Status: Active
 Weekly on Wednesday afternoons 2:00 pm
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    Coffee Morning
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Saturday mornings 10:30 am
 Last Saturday of the Month
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    Conversations Group
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4 at 1.45 p.m.
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    Crafts
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons
 Week 1 & 3
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    Evening Talks
 Status: Dormant
 Weekly on Friday evenings
 Through July
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    Exploring Poetry
 Status: Active
 On Monday mornings
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    French for All
 Status: Active
 On Tuesday mornings
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Gardening
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Tuesday afternoons
 Week 4
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    History
 Status: Active
 On Monday mornings 10:00 am-12:00 pm
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    International ZOOM
 Status: Active
 On Monday afternoons
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Italian for All
 Status: Active
 Fortnightly on Thursday afternoons 2:00 pm-4:00 pm
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Kaffee Klatsch
 Status: Active
 On Tuesday mornings
 Weeks 2 & 4 - 11 a.m.
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    Latin
 Status: Active
 On Monday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Litter Picking
 Status: Active
 On Tuesday mornings 10:00 am
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Mah Jong
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons 2:00 pm-4:00 pm
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Mindfulness
 Status: Active
 On Tuesday afternoons 1:30 pm-3:30 pm
 Weeks 1 & 3
- 
    Monthly Meeting
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Wednesday afternoons
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    Origin and Development of Drama
 Status: Active
 On Monday afternoons
 Week 2 & 4
- 
    Painting Workshop
 Status: Waiting list
 Weekly on Thursday mornings
- 
    Philosophy and Ideas
 Status: Active
 On Friday mornings 10:00 am-12:00 pm
 Weeks 1 & 3
- 
    Photography for Everyone
 Status: Active
 On Tuesday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4
- 
    Play Reading
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4
- 
    Psychology
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Thursday mornings 10:00 am-12:00 pm
 Week 3
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    Quiz
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Monday afternoons
 Week 2
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    Rummikub
 Status: Active
 On Friday afternoons
 Weeks 1 & 3
- 
    Science
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Monday afternoons
 Week 3
- 
    Scrabble
 Status: Active
 On Monday mornings
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Singing for Fun
 Status: Dormant
 On Friday afternoons
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    Social Cycling
 Status: Active
 On Thursday mornings
 Ad Hoc
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    Social Dance
 Status: Active
 On Thursday afternoons 2:00 pm-4:00 pm
 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the month
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    Sustainability
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Tuesday afternoons
 Week 2
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    Table Tennis
 Status: Active
 On Friday mornings
 Weeks 1,2,3 & 4
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    Technology Help Desk
 Status: Active
 On Monday mornings
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Ukulele
 Status: Active
 On Friday afternoons
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Understanding Modern Art
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Monday mornings 10:00 am-12:00 pm
 2nd Monday
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    Walking
 Status: Active
 On Friday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Welsh
 Status: Active
 On Thursday mornings
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Whist
 Status: Active
 On Monday afternoons
 Weeks 2 & 4
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    Wildlife
 Status: Active
 Monthly on Tuesday afternoons
 Week 1
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    Writing for Pleasure 1
 Status: Active
 On Friday mornings 10:00 am
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Writing for Pleasure 2
 Status: Full
 On Friday mornings 10:00 am
 Weeks 1 & 3
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    Writing for Pleasure 3
 Status: Active
 On Friday mornings 10:00 am
 Weeks 1 & 3